The SIX Dating Mistakes That Identify Your Soulmate—Even If You Haven't Met Him Yet!

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Identify Your Soulmate In Six Steps

Hi, I’m Donna Patterson, Author, and Relationship Coach. I offer life experience supported by studies of psychological trauma and the Alpha Female’s Guide to Dating and Relationships.

Welcome to my blog!


You’re here because you want to Identify Your Soulmate—Great.

The Key is How to Set Yourself Up as the “Prize” He Can’t Resist to Pursue—While You Apply the “do’s and don’ts” You Require Leading Him to the Altar—Then Practice Agape’ Love Principles to Maintain ‘Forever Love.’


So let’s do it. We debunk fantasy and proceed with reality—to pinpoint your best match.


I’ve been around the block, so I speak from real-life experience. I’ve seen the best and worst dating advice. What alarms me is what’s missing—a basic explanation of how men and women differ in their approach to finding true love. Once you understand how to bridge those differences,…


Man loves his woman



But you must know “how” to make this happen. I see your struggles, I’m trained to help. I can help. I WANT TO HELP.


You’ll master six magnetic dating skills that capture his heart. Apply ‘human nature principles‘ to forestall/tackle obstacles. Then thrive in enduring love …”Walla—You’ve Got it!”


You’ll journey from Selection through Dating into Marriage with the man who’ll love you, ALL THE WAY. I base this ride on “proven principles” that work like nothing else can to promote forever love. Like Mr. Darcy and Elizabeth. Romeo and Juliet. Heathcliff and Cathy. Jay-Z and Beyonce. 


As a single woman, you no longer have to muddle through meaningless dates. No more disappointment or rejection because you’re dating the wrong guy… As a ‘prime-time’ woman, you won’t settle for a ‘down-town man just to have someone. That’s not good. It’s not fair to you.


Because You deserve the best soulmate your tuned-in vibes mirror back to you.


When you master the six magnet-pulling dating skills, you’ll discover HOW ‘Mother Nature‘ teaches the best way relationships work. And WHY these principles work.


No two people are alike, so you learn to pinpoint WHAT to look for that meets you in the middle. That complements your essence. That identifies the team player who sings your internal songs.  Yes, there is a proven path. (More later).


The path to identifying your soulmate is bold and somewhat CONTROVERSIAL because you learn how and why to put yourself on a pedestal as the prize to be wooed and pursued. In tandem with cleverly playing the behind-the-scenes supporter. It takes knowledge and skills—guts and humility—patience and a cool head, but you’re worth it. Right? So let’s make it happen.


The entire Soulmate Journey into Forever love.


This is for women of all ages, single, divorced, widowed, who are seriously looking for a permanent relationship. So, if you’re just looking to hook up, date around with whoever, whenever, you’re not ready for what we offer.

Just keeping it real…


These principles stand the test of time. Transitioning through six phases of dating opens your eyes to understand all phases of love and its magic to bond soulmates in enduring love.


Only taught here at Soulmate Matcher. In our unique style, content, and format.


You learn valuable insight that sets us apart from run-of-the-mill dating chatter. You know, the ones that squawk 5 ways to comb your hair to find true love. (LOL).


I populate this blog with articles, books, ideas, tips, suggestions, and other resources to educate you on dating, relationships, romance, and marriage. Keep in touch, you’ll enjoy it.


It’s nice meeting you. Hope to work with you soon.


What’s next?





Donna Patterson

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