“He Loves Me! —Discover How Six New Bold Dating Secrets Reveal Your Soulmate—To Enjoy Love Beyond Your Wildest Dreams—Even if You’ve Failed Before"…

Attn: Single Women Serious for REAL Love with a Lifetime Partner

The Secret to Soulmate Matching is Selecting Your Best Dating Choice Upfront w/o Kissing Frogs along the Way…

But who do you turn to for answers on how to make this happen? Hmm…

 

Is there a “Love Mastery’ University that teaches secrets to unlock a man’s heart to romance & marriage? Or do you simply scarf down the latest guru spin on dating success? Or do you trust your own unproven gut instinct with fingers crossed hoping your current partner might be Mr. Right? Where are reliable answers?

 

Sadly, trial and error is all you get. You stumble. You fall. You endure the pains of rejection, lies, infidelities, incompatibilities. And end up wallowing in regret for time wasted leading nowhere. And because you don’t know better, you meet a new guy with your same old mindset, follow your same old pattern, praying this time will be different…

But how could it be different following the same old hit-and-miss dating patterns? … 

From the Desk of Donna Patterson… Welcome! I offer life experience supported by studies of psychological trauma. The Alpha Female’s Guide to Dating and Relationships. And am a relationship coach.

I’m old enough, wise enough, and empathic enough to want to help you avoid dating mistakes. Been there, done that. With my training, my desire is to help you find true love.

Therefore …

This blog argues the need for “Relationship Training.” It introduces a gutsy, bold, even controversial series on dating for lifetime love. The focus is on Revived Basic Relationship Fundamentals

This Revived Angle causes some women to cringe, rebel, deny, attack. Nevertheless, these tactics and attitudes lead to unbreakable bonding between you and your man. And teaches principles that bridge gender gaps molding couples into SOULMATES as team players— presented in content and style rarely taught today…

5 Reasons Why Women who Spin the Wheel of Guesses are Alone without a Lover…

  1. Women in their 30s, 40s, 50s+ are tired of runarounds, game playing, womanizers, commitment phobics. They’re looking for the ‘right’ guy. Problem is that the man right for Mary Jane could be absolutely wrong for you. How do you determine who YOUR right guy is? … Unfortunately spinning the wheel of guesses often leads to a boatload of ex-lovers—Definitely not appealing anymore… 

  2. Young women often lack self-esteem and are too critical of themselves. Too tall. Too short. Too fat. Too thin. Not pretty enough. Not smart enough, etc. We feel for them because we were once young too. All they know about dating and relationships is what they pick up from Facebook, Instagram, Tik Tock, or other social media platforms. To say the least … Not the best resources. This leaves them vastly unprepared for the emotional journey of relationship building. Leaving them dancing in the dark…
     
  3. Some paint a fairy-tale picture of their “Mr. Right”. He’s a tall knight in shining armor, able to leap tall buildings in a single bounce. He’s Adonis with King Solomon’s intellect.  …Really? What do you offer him to complete that picture? Clue—the REAL world doesn’t work like that. Because this is a fantasy unlikely to happen for you—because Mr. Right wants to match his essence. It’s a two-way street.

  4. Others give a man too much of themselves too soon. A man by nature is a pursuer. When you gush too soon, he loses his desire to pursue; he won’t bother setting you up as the woman of his dreams. He won’t look for ways to please you. Or surprise you. Or go out of his way for you. You’ve made his life complete without him lifting a finger. There’s nothing to pursue. Sad but true. You lose.

  5. Many are career go-getters. Their entire life is work. Making something happen. Being at the forefront of the action. No time to develop intimacies. No time to think about starting a family. No desire to become Mom. Her desire is to become a CEO. Or the first woman to do (whatever). No thoughts of sharing her life with another. Her love life consists of brief interludes from time to time to satisfy sexual urges… Like Julie …

Meet Julie who Shares her Sexual Agency Story …

“My college days were fast and furious. Books and boys. Hooking up was no big deal because my main focus was to become one of New York’s City most renowned interior decorators. My sexual encounters, therefore, were a way of exploring new venues into sexual broadening. I became a verified sexual agency woman. It was thrilling at times, other times empty— but always nonchalant

…Until

At age 35 I found myself ALONE emotionally. My career thrived. Bank account to die for. Lived the high-life in an envy condo. But then reality clicked in— My high school and college friends had married. Had children. Workmates all had ‘significant others’ while I only entertained sleepovers from time to time. Where was I heading? A life of One? That picture became less and less appealing. 

One day I realized I wanted Love. A permanent partnership with someone to love and be loved in return. What took me so long!

The Loneliness of Living Loveless …

Even introverts thrive when loved. The need for human connection is real. There are only so many alone activities to do before you long to talk with someone. Share a meal with. Hug. Make love with. Walk a trail with. Debate opinions. Spar. Laugh with. Even Cry with.

Who was that special someone for me? Was it too late? Where can I find him? I started dating online. Some enjoy success—I met a lot of frogs. Through friends, though, over time I did meet five guys I dated. Let me tell you about them.

The Five Guys Julie Dates and the Dilemmas Raised …    

  1. Jess: learn the outcome of desperation in my foolish dating choice
  2. Rick: see my definition of ‘relationship’ shattered by a reality check
  3. Phil: watch me evaluate temporary rewards vs long-term commitment
  4. Walter: experience my distress as I weigh the price of ‘settling’
  5. Stu: feel my excitement in the arms of an interracial relationship in an attempt to tame a womanizer

Each experience failed. Why? What didn’t I see? Will I ever find a soulmate? The fight for sleep was agonizing. 

All this time, I’d been dating by the seat of my pants. Whoever struck my fancy at the moment. A sexy raised eyebrow; a dimpled smile; an expensive car; an alluring sexual advance. When I met Joe, I took the plunge to dig deeper and got emotionally involved. What a roller-coaster ride that was! — but I didn’t understand why.

Thankfully, my work assistant, Chanelle, noticed my depression and introduced me to Dr. Tracy Braun … And my love life changed forever!

Why Dating Blind shipwrecks Relationship Success…

Tracy Braun taught me a plan to date with purpose and direction. *I learned that my choice of who to date is the single most important building block in whether my relationship would succeed—or Not. No more aimless dating. Thereafter I dated understanding what I was doing, why I was doing it, and how it should work. All I had to do was listen, learn and apply.

Yikes! I Blew It …

Old habits are hard to break and I fell HARD. (I blew it with a ski instructor). Book II.

Finally, I Got back up using my Selection Profile set up following instructions in Book I.

Then.  I.  Met.  DAVE… 

How I Won Dave’s Heart—Even When He Hedged on Commitment…

Dave Harlin mesmerized me with twinkling teddy bear eyes. A deep cleft chin.  And dimples that melted my heart. He was kind, handsome, sensitive, intelligent and so sexy. But WAIT! ….. this time did I have the dating skills necessary to challenge myself into his heart? Had I learned from past mistakes?” 

INTRODUCING “THE SOULMATE MATCHER DATING SERIES”

This is What Julie Learned to do:

This Matching Series is an Entire Journey into Understanding, Identifying, and Enjoying Soulmate love from Selection, through Dating into Marriage…

This is for women single, divorced, widowed, who are seriously looking for a permanent relationship. Probably more for 30+ women than for teens or tweens who haven’t experienced the “burn” yet. However, as an informative measure, this information will mature you F.A.S.T.

One day the pandemic will end. And you’ll want to date again in person, go to movies, dine out, walk in the park, share ideas, spar, make love with a best friend and lifelong partner. You can do this when you:

Here’s My Promise to You …

This series will help you identify your best match by working through six steps. Then how to maintain peak fulfillment in marriage thereafter as you walk hand-in-hand through whatever ups and downs life throws to experience the joy of love through the years.

Taught Only Here at Soulmate Matcher In our Unique Style, Content, and Format…

You’ll learn valuable insight that sets us apart from run-of-the-mill dating chatter. You know, the ones that squawk 5 ways to comb your hair to find true love. (LOL).

I populate this blog with articles, books, ideas, tips, suggestions, and other resources to educate you on dating, relationships, romance, and marriage. Even other resources for a well-rounded woman. Keep in touch; enjoy it.

Three Books Comprise the Series…

Book I is short. But it LAYS THE FOUNDATION for the application of Your “SelectionPlan.”

Book II is How to implement Your Selection Plan

Book III How to gain commitment and make your Partnership Work through the Years.

SUMMARY …

This post introduces me to you. And argues for RELATIONSHIP TRAINING to benefit yourself so that you can flourish in the soulmate love you deserve — And can attain — when you know how to do it!

DO THIS NOW — LOOK AT BOOK I

Click here: Book I- What 99% of singles don’t know about selection, but should!

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Continue to check weekly for posts that inspire and encourage your journey to find true love with your soulmate.

Donna Patterson

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