A previous article discussed why “Order” in relationships is the key to happiness. Others violently oppose. So here, ladies and gentlemen is the formula of love in a nutshell: Chemistry+Passion+Spirituality+Seeing+Team = True Love   Oh, wait, here’s another definition: “Loving does not mean merging, surrendering, and uniting with another person; it is rather a high […]

It’s time to love when reciprocal chemistry allows you and your partner to “SEE” each other inside and out. To appreciate similarities that bond. To recognize differences that complement. To merge two diverse personalities together in harmony showing each mutual appreciation. Here’s the thing about people truly in love: They SEE each other. They KNOW each other as […]

Spot the Scam: Protect Heartbreak & Bank Account It devastated my co-worker. Emily was a middle-aged 60-year-old kind and giving woman who lived a comfortable life—But lonely since the death of her husband 5 years earlier. A romance scammer entered her life and ripped her perfect world to shreds. The emotional tyranny left her wrecked, […]

Let’s have fun with this post. Won’t be mad if you disagree. Share your viewpoint loud and clear… Soulmate Matcher (via an unofficial survey) asked young men in their 30s & 40s what they’re looking for when considering a lifetime partner. We asked them to list their top 7 requirements (besides sex).   Men responded […]

Is Cinderella Possible? Avoid 5 Obstacles… Imagine walking together in love … what makes it happen?” Welcome ladies who love to love! Glad you’re here. This post argues the desperate need for Relationship Education. Because how to acquire Cinderella love is complicated to grasp. Without understanding how love works, we date in the dark. Fingers […]

A Real Love Formula: Romance (Eros) + Principled Love (Agape)=Soulmate Love Welcome ladies who love to love. Glad you’re here. My name is Donna Patterson, author of the Soulmate Matcher Series. I’m a recovering love too easily addict. My desire for romantic love led me down the tears in buckets hole more than was necessary. […]

It takes the good, bad, and ugly to “Make Love Happen.” Don’t ruin my dreams talking stinky underwear. Just trying to keep it real.     We love to love. We love to be loved. We believe love is the essence of life. But what defines a real love between a man and woman? Based […]

You Can Make Your Romantic Dreams come True without a Magic Wand and Silver Slippers— When You Date with Purpose and Direction of What to do, How to Do it, and Why it works! Is Cinderella Love fairy-tale talk? Many would say, “Yes.” But it’s all about how you approach the subject. Are you thinking […]

Forever love blooms when … two people come together and learn to work together as a TEAM. While working as a team,  side-by-side, in one accord in purpose and direction, they develop strong feelings of warm personal attachment. A feeling of being connected with the person who SEES you. Here’s the thing about people who are […]

My heart is crying. I feel so alone. The pain of rejection is unendurable. I can’t eat. I can’t sleep. I walk around in a trauma fog lost in distress … when will the pain end?   Sound familiar?   Studies reveal that romantic rejections can start in high school with early dating when someone rejects […]