Are you tired of hooking-up? Many women are. Here’s Good News: Single Women Can Now Control Sexual Favors to Find True Love & Marriage Reclaiming Sexual Control? Is this some type of No-Sex abstinence message? No! Thousands of women hold dear virginity until marriage. Their morals. I applaud them. This post addresses […]
Category: Dating & Relationships
Why friendship first is important
Passionate Love Defined!
Is your physical attraction to him strong? Does your heart flutter when he walks into the room? Do you long to hold hands? Kiss him? Express yourself sexually with him? Do you believe that passionate love is vital to any enduring relationship? If yes—good. If no—your relationship is lacking a vital element. Now, let’s find […]
Secrets Reveal How to love Your Man
The operative word is ‘YOUR‘ man. Not a generic one size fits all advice. You want to love YOUR man with all his good, bad and ugly traits. His kindness and mean streaks. His generosity and tight fists. His pride and insecurities. His vitality and laziness. His love and withdrawal times. This is a […]
Should I Ask a Man for a Date?
According to many women the answer is “Absolutely.” We no longer sit on the sidelines and wait like damsels in distress. If we see a guy we want, we take the initiative to go after him. “I have no problem asking a man for his phone number, or ask him out for a date,” Anna […]
What “Attitude’ do men want in a woman?
WHAT IS “ATTITUDE”? Men love a challenge. Men love to pursue. Men love the cat and mouse game. So, the first thing men want in a woman is her fiestiness. They want a woman full of animation, energy, or courage; spirited; spunky. In three words: They want “attitude.” Give him a reason to chase you. […]
How Loving a Married Man Ruins Future Love
NEVER FALL IN LOVE WITH A MARRIED MAN … Falling in love with a married man is hardly the desire of most women. Few set out to be his mistress—sleeping with a married man. But those who do succumb—fall hard—and find themselves ensconced in loving a married man with a love hot as the raging […]
Prison Love is Mind Manipulation
MIND MANIPULATION Sam, my prison lover, with one hand, held a knife to my neck, his other arm held me down ready to slit my throat. I could hardly breathe as I continued kicking and struggling against him. Suddenly there was loud persistent knocking on the door. “Let us in,” my daughter screamed. Sam whirled around […]
Mutual Love is the Endgame–Why?
END GAME IS MUTUAL LOVE Have you ever found yourself wondering if he loves you as much as you love him? Do you feel less secure in his love? These nagging questions could mean you’re feeling like a one-sided partner. Somehow you feel the balance of love is not equal. So how does a woman […]
Find the Love of Your Life: Propose this Challenge …
THE LOVE CHALLENGE Many women today think it’s too difficult to find the love of their life. True, times are harder for true love to blossom. Not as many men available. The pickings are slim. However, eligible men are still available and you can make finding the love of your life easier with a little […]
A Settling for Marriage Nightmare!
WHY YOU SHOULD NEVER SETTLE FOR LOVE Do you want passion, chemistry, soul-stirring kisses, deep-seated lust, a craving heart, pulsating heart flutters? If so, you’d better rethink ‘settling’ for marriage—because none of the above will apply. ‘Settling for’ means to settle for less. The operative word is … less. Is less really what you […]
Love and Decision Making: Watch for Red Flags
WATCH FOR THE RELATIONSHIP RED FLAGS When we love often it’s through rose-colored glasses. We only see the best. We see what we want to see. But when assessing a potential life-time partner, we’d best take those glasses off or peek above the rim to assess how each approaches love and decision making. Doesn’t sound […]
Should I Marry Him–Have You Mastered Verbal Intimacy Yet?
THE MAGIC OF VERBAL INTIMACY He has proposed. The ring is yours to have. But, you’re looking at him wondering if he is the “One”. Will he make a good husband; a good father; a good lover; a best friend? Your mom loves him; dad thinks he’s great. Friends are happy for you. So, […]
Commitment Phobic Men: What’s the FEAR?
COMMITMENT PHOBIC FEAR FEAR! Inside their heads when men ponder the word commitment they hear—responsibility, permanence, loss of freedom. Yikes! I can’t do this. I’m not ready for this. I’ll take too much work. FEAR! The positive side of this thinking, if there is any, is that men seem to understand the challenges involved in […]
Dating: Boldly Protect Yourself from Rejection
PROTECT YOURSELF FROM REJECTION Many of us have been there—the cold, hard pain of rejection. It’s soul-stabbing suffering. It’s humiliating. It’s cruel. Its insufferable sting sears the heart. And you pray to never allow this to happen to you again. But how can you assure it won’t? We’ll consider one way in this post. It’s […]
Why One-Way Love Sucks Like a Poison Pill
SAY, “NO’ TO ONE-WAY LOVE You’ve loved him from the depths of your heart. You’ve given him love unconditionally. You’ve bared your vulnerabilities like the open sea. You’ve held him in your arms to suckle your breasts like bees gathering honey—and then he’s gone. Just like that. The relationship failed because he didn’t love you […]