Fiction love It’s the elixir that fulfills our life. It’s our sunshine in a dark world. It’s the Cinderella dream poets write about. It’s spell-binding surrender to one who intoxicates our soul. Or Put another way: It’s the weak-in-the-knees feeling when he walks into the room. It’s his voice that causes your heart to palpitate […]
Author: Grandma D
I'm Donna Patterson, author of the three-book series titled: "Soulmate Matcher." It's a single woman's journey from Selection thru Dating into Marriage—based on Discovering Secrets to Romance by unraveling the mysteries of How Men Purse. Readers follow Julie with exercises on how to apply techniques to their lives to find their own Forever Love Soulmate.
Dating: The Six Step Plan Checklist
Six Dating Skills from Selection through Dating into Marriage Effective dating starts with selecting the ‘right‘ man to date. Spend your time with the man most likely to be your soulmate. Book I details How to Select your Best Match. It engages you to create two profiles. Profile I reveals who you are deep inside. Profile […]
Tired of Dating Hookups?—Control Sexual Favors—Find True Love
Are you tired of hooking-up? Many women are. Here’s Good News: Single Women Can Now Control Sexual Favors to Find True Love & Marriage Reclaiming Sexual Control? Is this some type of No-Sex abstinence message? No! Thousands of women hold dear virginity until marriage. Their morals. I applaud them. This post addresses […]
My Heart is Bleeding Loneliness—How to Make it Stop
My heart is crying. I feel so alone. The pain of rejection is unendurable. I can’t eat. I can’t sleep. I walk around in a trauma fog lost in distress … when will the pain end? Sound familiar? Studies reveal that romantic rejections can start in high school with early dating when someone rejects […]
Secrets Reveal How to love Your Man
The operative word is ‘YOUR‘ man. Not a generic one size fits all advice. You want to love YOUR man with all his good, bad and ugly traits. His kindness and mean streaks. His generosity and tight fists. His pride and insecurities. His vitality and laziness. His love and withdrawal times. This is a […]
How Loving a Married Man Ruins Future Love
NEVER FALL IN LOVE WITH A MARRIED MAN … Falling in love with a married man is hardly the desire of most women. Few set out to be his mistress—sleeping with a married man. But those who do succumb—fall hard—and find themselves ensconced in loving a married man with a love hot as the raging […]
Prison Love is Mind Manipulation
MIND MANIPULATION Sam, my prison lover, with one hand, held a knife to my neck, his other arm held me down ready to slit my throat. I could hardly breathe as I continued kicking and struggling against him. Suddenly there was loud persistent knocking on the door. “Let us in,” my daughter screamed. Sam whirled around […]
Initiate the Love Codes that Make Him Yours
LOVE CODES There is a lot of talk about marriage and “family values” today. Foremost, family values means keeping the family together and in balance with all other aspects of life as the center core of the marriage. One example was highlighted in an interview with the FLOTUS, Michelle O in which she revealed love […]
Love and Decision Making: Watch for Red Flags
WATCH FOR THE RELATIONSHIP RED FLAGS When we love often it’s through rose-colored glasses. We only see the best. We see what we want to see. But when assessing a potential life-time partner, we’d best take those glasses off or peek above the rim to assess how each approaches love and decision making. Doesn’t sound […]
Should I Marry Him–Have You Mastered Verbal Intimacy Yet?
THE MAGIC OF VERBAL INTIMACY He has proposed. The ring is yours to have. But, you’re looking at him wondering if he is the “One”. Will he make a good husband; a good father; a good lover; a best friend? Your mom loves him; dad thinks he’s great. Friends are happy for you. So, […]
Dating: Boldly Protect Yourself from Rejection
PROTECT YOURSELF FROM REJECTION Many of us have been there—the cold, hard pain of rejection. It’s soul-stabbing suffering. It’s humiliating. It’s cruel. Its insufferable sting sears the heart. And you pray to never allow this to happen to you again. But how can you assure it won’t? We’ll consider one way in this post. It’s […]
Relationships Defined Part IV
“Remember, there are many more women than eligible men. You have to set yourself up as the gold medal–as someone worth pursuing. Establish your value–not your sex. Sex he can get anywhere … your value is priceless.” Julie turned away, her eyes filled with tears. There was nothing left to say. With these words, […]
